Well, right after I posted my last post I went to my blogger friend Andrea's blog & read a wonderful post that I truly needed to hear. You can go here to read the entire post, but here is a portion that truly spoke to me:
"Someone told me at the beginning of our journey, “Andrea—get your thick skin on girl. Adoption isn’t for the faint of heart.”
For those of you starting your journey, let me say that again: Get your thick skin on girls. Adoption isn’t for the faint of heart.
This is what you CAN’T expect. Don’t expect it to be easy. Don’t expect those you THINK will support you to support you. Don’t expect others to always “get it” or “get” how you are feeling. Don’t expect people to treat you as if you are expecting. Don’t expect your church to support you. Don’t expect everyone you love to be on board.
BUT this is what you CAN expect. Expect that you will be changed. Expect that your immediate family will grow closer in the process. Expect that it WILL BE WORTH IT. Expect that Lord will provide. Expect that His timing will be perfect. Expect to be anxious…and to struggle with being anxious for nothing…but expect to feel the peace that surpasses all understanding. Expect that you will NOT BE ALONE…there may not be others in your neighborhood…or even close by…but there are hundreds all over the country being called just like your family to go down this road. Not only will the Lord carry you through and BE WITH YOU THE ENTIRE TIME AS YOU CRY OUT TO HIM…but He will bring others to join you…walk with you…encourage you…and love you."
Thanks Andrea for being an encouragement & allowing God to speak through you to touch people's lives like mine. :)
Sunday, May 09, 2010
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Application to Barker ~ 10-13-09
Applicaiton interview ~ 11-2-09
Application for home study ~ 11-5-09
Assigned our social worker ~ 11-11-09
1st home study visit ~ 11-20-09
sent I-600a ~ 12-1-09
Individual home study visits ~ 12-6-09
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Last home study visit ~ 12-26-09
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Legals ~ 8-30-10
I-600 mailed ~ 8-30-10
I-600 approval ~ 9-20-10
NVC In/Out ~ 9/28/10
P3 sent ~ 9/30/10
VI ~ ???
TC ~ 10/5/10
A forever family! ~ 10/12/10
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Assigned our social worker ~ 11-11-09
1st home study visit ~ 11-20-09
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1 comments:
That's beautiful! You gotta love when you read things at just the right time when you need it!
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